Conflict in Relationships

blame, conflict, confrontation and power struggle in relationships and at work

Blaming Games: poem

 

blaming, communication, power struggles, responsibility in relationships

Beyond the Power Struggle: Deal with Conflict in Love and Work

by Susan M. Campbell
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Contents
    • FROM EITHER-OR TO BOTH-AND RELATIONSHIPS
      • Either-Or Thinking and the Power Sruggle
      • The Expanded View: Both-And in action
      • Reconciling the Irreconcilable
    • POWER STRUGGLE & PARADOX
      • The Paradox of Surrender
      • My Search for Mr. Right
      • The Paradox of Avoidance
      • The Paradox of Understanding
      • The Iatrogenic Paradox
      • The Paradox of Responsibility
      • The Paradox of Disidentification
      • The Paradox of High Expectations
    • WHAT'S THE STRUGGLE ABOUT?
      • We're all Different
      • But is it Safe to be Different?
      • License for Lunacy
      • The Meeting of Eastern & Western Medicine
      • The Importance of a Good Fight
    • THE POLAR DIMENSIONS INVENTORY
      • Scoring the Polar Dimensions Inventory
    • ATTRACTION, POLARIZATION, RECONCILIATION
      • Antagonistic & Complementary Differences
      • The Saver & the Spender
      • The Scurrier & The Dawdler
      • The Parallel Player & the Face to Face Player
      • The Lover & the Warrior
      • The Space Taker & the Space Maker
      • The Leaper & The Looker
      • The Thinker & The Feeler
    • HOW & WHY WE GET STUCK IN STRUGGLE
      • Four Ways to Stay Stuck in Struggle
      • Fear of the Past Repeating Itself
      • Fear of the Future Turning Out Wrong
      • Attachments to having Your Way
      • Expecting the World to be as You Wish it Were
    • ANATOMY OF AN ARGUMENT
      • "I'm Not in the Mood, Bruce"
      • The Ambivalent marriage of Bart & betty
      • Why Co-Workers Fight
      • How Interdependence Contributes to Friction
    • YOUR THOUGHTS MAKE A DIFFERENCE
      • The Security/Control Mode of Coping
      • The Unity/Participation Position
      • How Attitudes Affect Outcomes
      • The Power of Your Thoughts
      • Reader Participation Activity
    • RELATIONSHIP STRUGGLE REFLECTS INNER STRUGGLE
      • Physical Violence Against One's Other Side
      • Balancing Power & Love
      • The Bulldog at my Door
      • The Disowned Inner Critic
    • SEX: CHANGING EXPECTATIONS, UNCHANGING BIOLOGY
      • Sexual Differences Between Males & Females
      • The Meaning of Impotence & Frigidity
      • Varieties of Sexual Scripts
      • Ways of Harmonizing Sexual Differences
    • BOSSES, CO-WORKERS, & OTHER SEX OBJECTS
      • Business Affairs
      • What's a Boss To Do?
      • You are Not Alone
      • The Home-Office Connection
      • Does Sexuality Have a Place on the Job?
    • TOWARDS RESOLUTION OF THE POWER STRUGGLE
      • The Either-Or World of Linda & George
      • Giving Up & Gaining Power
      • You Can See Forever
      • Take It Back!
      • Looking for the Softer Feelings
      • Bob & Rhonda's Struggle Beneath the Struggle
      • "There Must Be Something We Can Agree About!"
      • You Get What You Give
      • What's the Payoff?
    • GUIDELINES FOR COMMUNICATION
    • RITUALS FOR GETTING THROUGH THE POWER STRUGGLE
      • Telling Your Stories
      • Empty Chair Dialogue
      • Inner Dialogue in Writing
      • The Safespace
      • Sentence Completion
      • Do it Yourself "Marriage Encounter"
      • Resentments & Regards
      • Do You mean?
      • Sharing Withholds in Reverse
      • Common Vision
      • King/Queen for a Day
      • Identifying Your Personal Pattern in a Relationship
      • Advice for the Other
      • Round Table Role Exchange
      • Fishbowl
      • Confronting Differences
      • Image Exchange
      • Active Listening
    • BEYOND THE POWER STRUGGLE
    • EPILOGUE: On Nuclear Disarmament

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